I came to see that my father's "no's" were a
language of self-preservation directed not so
much at me as at himself. Denial defined a
zone of safety: nothing ventured, nothing lost."
Monday, December 11, 2006
Timid Living
I was struck by the following sentences from Radical Son by David Horowitz. He is describing his father, but they could have been written about me.
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E M Forster has some insight on this as well in Howards End.
ReplyDeleteActual life is full of false cluse and sign-posts that lead nowhere. WITH INFINITE EFFORT WE NERVE OURSELVES FOR A CRISIS THAT NEVER COMES. The most successful career must show a wast of strength that might have removed mountains, and the most unsuccessful in that that of a man who is taken unprepared, but of him who has prepared and is never taken.